
Learning to Pause Without Guilt.
Learning to Pause Without Guilt.
Learning to Pause Without Guilt.
Taking a break isn’t failure — it’s part of the process. Here’s how to slow down with kindness.
Taking a break isn’t failure — it’s part of the process. Here’s how to slow down with kindness.
Taking a break isn’t failure — it’s part of the process. Here’s how to slow down with kindness.
August 6, 2025
August 6, 2025
August 6, 2025



Why pausing matters.
We live in a world that rewards speed — quick decisions, instant replies, constant motion. In that environment, slowing down can feel wrong, even shameful. But the truth is, pausing is often exactly what we need to move forward with clarity.
When you give yourself permission to stop, even briefly, you create space for awareness. You notice how you’re feeling, what you’re thinking, and whether the direction you’re heading still feels right. That pause can prevent burnout, help you reset your priorities, and remind you that your worth isn’t measured by your productivity.
Rest is not the opposite of progress.
Pausing doesn’t mean giving up. It doesn’t mean you’re lazy or unmotivated. It means you’re choosing to protect your energy so you can return to your work, relationships, and goals with intention. The most meaningful progress often comes after a moment of stillness — when you’ve had time to breathe, reflect, and reconnect with what matters most.
"Sometimes you need to step back to move forward with purpose."
The challenge is that our culture often labels rest as weakness. We are conditioned to equate “doing more” with “being more,” which can lead to a constant undercurrent of guilt when we choose to slow down. But rest isn’t the opposite of progress — it’s an essential part of it. Without it, our work loses depth, our creativity dries up, and our resilience wears thin.
Small pauses, big shifts.
And here’s the part most people forget: pausing doesn’t have to be long to be valuable. Even a minute of conscious breathing, a short walk, or a quiet cup of tea can shift your state of mind.
These moments remind you that rest is not a reward at the end of productivity — it’s a vital part of sustaining it. The more you integrate these small pauses into your day, the less likely you are to reach the point of exhaustion in the first place.
If you’ve been pushing yourself without a break, try this: the next time you feel the pressure building, step away for just two minutes. Look out a window. Stretch. Close your eyes and breathe. Notice how your body feels before and after. That shift, however small, is proof that pausing works. It’s not about losing time — it’s about regaining presence.
Asking a better question.
So the next time you catch yourself thinking, “I can’t stop now,” ask instead: “What might happen if I did?” You may be surprised at how much more grounded, focused, and ready you feel when you return.
Why pausing matters.
We live in a world that rewards speed — quick decisions, instant replies, constant motion. In that environment, slowing down can feel wrong, even shameful. But the truth is, pausing is often exactly what we need to move forward with clarity.
When you give yourself permission to stop, even briefly, you create space for awareness. You notice how you’re feeling, what you’re thinking, and whether the direction you’re heading still feels right. That pause can prevent burnout, help you reset your priorities, and remind you that your worth isn’t measured by your productivity.
Rest is not the opposite of progress.
Pausing doesn’t mean giving up. It doesn’t mean you’re lazy or unmotivated. It means you’re choosing to protect your energy so you can return to your work, relationships, and goals with intention. The most meaningful progress often comes after a moment of stillness — when you’ve had time to breathe, reflect, and reconnect with what matters most.
"Sometimes you need to step back to move forward with purpose."
The challenge is that our culture often labels rest as weakness. We are conditioned to equate “doing more” with “being more,” which can lead to a constant undercurrent of guilt when we choose to slow down. But rest isn’t the opposite of progress — it’s an essential part of it. Without it, our work loses depth, our creativity dries up, and our resilience wears thin.
Small pauses, big shifts.
And here’s the part most people forget: pausing doesn’t have to be long to be valuable. Even a minute of conscious breathing, a short walk, or a quiet cup of tea can shift your state of mind.
These moments remind you that rest is not a reward at the end of productivity — it’s a vital part of sustaining it. The more you integrate these small pauses into your day, the less likely you are to reach the point of exhaustion in the first place.
If you’ve been pushing yourself without a break, try this: the next time you feel the pressure building, step away for just two minutes. Look out a window. Stretch. Close your eyes and breathe. Notice how your body feels before and after. That shift, however small, is proof that pausing works. It’s not about losing time — it’s about regaining presence.
Asking a better question.
So the next time you catch yourself thinking, “I can’t stop now,” ask instead: “What might happen if I did?” You may be surprised at how much more grounded, focused, and ready you feel when you return.
Why pausing matters.
We live in a world that rewards speed — quick decisions, instant replies, constant motion. In that environment, slowing down can feel wrong, even shameful. But the truth is, pausing is often exactly what we need to move forward with clarity.
When you give yourself permission to stop, even briefly, you create space for awareness. You notice how you’re feeling, what you’re thinking, and whether the direction you’re heading still feels right. That pause can prevent burnout, help you reset your priorities, and remind you that your worth isn’t measured by your productivity.
Rest is not the opposite of progress.
Pausing doesn’t mean giving up. It doesn’t mean you’re lazy or unmotivated. It means you’re choosing to protect your energy so you can return to your work, relationships, and goals with intention. The most meaningful progress often comes after a moment of stillness — when you’ve had time to breathe, reflect, and reconnect with what matters most.
"Sometimes you need to step back to move forward with purpose."
The challenge is that our culture often labels rest as weakness. We are conditioned to equate “doing more” with “being more,” which can lead to a constant undercurrent of guilt when we choose to slow down. But rest isn’t the opposite of progress — it’s an essential part of it. Without it, our work loses depth, our creativity dries up, and our resilience wears thin.
Small pauses, big shifts.
And here’s the part most people forget: pausing doesn’t have to be long to be valuable. Even a minute of conscious breathing, a short walk, or a quiet cup of tea can shift your state of mind.
These moments remind you that rest is not a reward at the end of productivity — it’s a vital part of sustaining it. The more you integrate these small pauses into your day, the less likely you are to reach the point of exhaustion in the first place.
If you’ve been pushing yourself without a break, try this: the next time you feel the pressure building, step away for just two minutes. Look out a window. Stretch. Close your eyes and breathe. Notice how your body feels before and after. That shift, however small, is proof that pausing works. It’s not about losing time — it’s about regaining presence.
Asking a better question.
So the next time you catch yourself thinking, “I can’t stop now,” ask instead: “What might happen if I did?” You may be surprised at how much more grounded, focused, and ready you feel when you return.
— Anna Keller, Therapist & Founder of ClearPath
— Anna Keller, Therapist & Founder of ClearPath
— Anna Keller, Therapist & Founder of ClearPath
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A brief check-in on how things have been since last time
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Guided hypnosis or mindful practice to embed that skill
Agreeing a small, achievable action to practise between sessions
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All you need is a quiet space, a stable internet connection, and headphones if possible.
Whether you are in Paris or elsewhere, you can access therapy in the language you feel most comfortable with.
Will I be in control during hypnosis?
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Hypnosis used in CBH is not about losing awareness or control; you remain fully conscious and able to stop at any time.
There is no stage hypnosis and nothing happens without your consent.It is simply a guided way of focusing attention so you can practise new responses with less interference from stress or overthinking.
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CBH is a great fit if you are an adult who wants practical support with:
Anxiety, excessive worry or “what-if” thinking
Stress, tension and difficulty relaxing
Low self-esteem or confidence
Overthinking and rumination
Phobias (flying, animals, etc.)
Habits you want to change
Sleep difficulties
CBH is a supportive, skills-based therapy. It does not diagnose or treat mental illness and is not suitable if you:
Are in an acute mental health crisis
Experience psychosis or hallucinations
Have high-risk clinical depression or active suicidal thoughts
Require medical or psychiatric intervention
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Therapy isn’t just for crises. It’s for anyone curious about growth, clarity, or navigating life’s changes with more support and self-awareness.
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What is Cognitive Behavioural Hypnotherapy (CBH)?
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CBH integrates evidence-based CBT methods with hypnosis and mindfulness techniques.
Hypnosis in CBH helps you enter a calm, focused state of attention where it can feel easier to learn, rehearse, and reinforce the new skills we are working on.
You remain fully conscious and in control at all times. Hypnosis simply creates the mental space and clarity needed to practise change more effectively.
What happens in a CBH session?
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Sessions generally follow a clear structure:
A brief check-in on how things have been since last time
Exploring what’s been getting in the way of the change you want
Learning a CBH tool tailored to your goal
Guided hypnosis or mindful practice to embed that skill
Agreeing a small, achievable action to practise between sessions
Think of CBH as a training process: each week you gain tools, build confidence, and strengthen new habits with support.
How many sessions will I need?
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This varies depending on your goals and situation.
Many people start noticing progress within 5–12 sessions, especially with consistent practice between sessions.
Together, we review progress regularly and adjust our plan so you feel supported and not overwhelmed.
You are always in charge of how long you continue.
Can CBH be done online?
Can CBH be done online?
Yes, absolutely.
CBH can be just as effective online as in person, because the core elements (learning skills, practising focus, reviewing progress) translate extremely well to video sessions.
All you need is a quiet space, a stable internet connection, and headphones if possible.
Whether you are in Paris or elsewhere, you can access therapy in the language you feel most comfortable with.
Will I be in control during hypnosis?
Will I be in control during hypnosis?
Yes.
Hypnosis used in CBH is not about losing awareness or control; you remain fully conscious and able to stop at any time.
There is no stage hypnosis and nothing happens without your consent.It is simply a guided way of focusing attention so you can practise new responses with less interference from stress or overthinking.
Is CBH right for me?
Is CBH right for me?
CBH is a great fit if you are an adult who wants practical support with:
Anxiety, excessive worry or “what-if” thinking
Stress, tension and difficulty relaxing
Low self-esteem or confidence
Overthinking and rumination
Phobias (flying, animals, etc.)
Habits you want to change
Sleep difficulties
CBH is a supportive, skills-based therapy. It does not diagnose or treat mental illness and is not suitable if you:
Are in an acute mental health crisis
Experience psychosis or hallucinations
Have high-risk clinical depression or active suicidal thoughts
Require medical or psychiatric intervention
Your questions.
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Not sure what to expect? These answers might help you feel more confident as you begin.
What is CBT and how does it work?
Therapy isn’t just for crises. It’s for anyone curious about growth, clarity, or navigating life’s changes with more support and self-awareness.
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Therapy isn’t just for crises. It’s for anyone curious about growth, clarity, or navigating life’s changes with more support and self-awareness.
What is Cognitive Behavioural Hypnotherapy (CBH)?
What is Cognitive Behavioural Hypnotherapy (CBH)?
CBH integrates evidence-based CBT methods with hypnosis and mindfulness techniques.
Hypnosis in CBH helps you enter a calm, focused state of attention where it can feel easier to learn, rehearse, and reinforce the new skills we are working on.
You remain fully conscious and in control at all times. Hypnosis simply creates the mental space and clarity needed to practise change more effectively.
What happens in a CBH session?
What happens in a CBH session?
Sessions generally follow a clear structure:
A brief check-in on how things have been since last time
Exploring what’s been getting in the way of the change you want
Learning a CBH tool tailored to your goal
Guided hypnosis or mindful practice to embed that skill
Agreeing a small, achievable action to practise between sessions
Think of CBH as a training process: each week you gain tools, build confidence, and strengthen new habits with support.
How many sessions will I need?
How many sessions will I need?
This varies depending on your goals and situation.
Many people start noticing progress within 5–12 sessions, especially with consistent practice between sessions.
Together, we review progress regularly and adjust our plan so you feel supported and not overwhelmed.
You are always in charge of how long you continue.
Can CBH be done online?
Can CBH be done online?
Yes, absolutely.
CBH can be just as effective online as in person, because the core elements (learning skills, practising focus, reviewing progress) translate extremely well to video sessions.
All you need is a quiet space, a stable internet connection, and headphones if possible.
Whether you are in Paris or elsewhere, you can access therapy in the language you feel most comfortable with.
Will I be in control during hypnosis?
Will I be in control during hypnosis?
Yes.
Hypnosis used in CBH is not about losing awareness or control; you remain fully conscious and able to stop at any time.
There is no stage hypnosis and nothing happens without your consent.It is simply a guided way of focusing attention so you can practise new responses with less interference from stress or overthinking.
Is CBH right for me?
Is CBH right for me?
CBH is a great fit if you are an adult who wants practical support with:
Anxiety, excessive worry or “what-if” thinking
Stress, tension and difficulty relaxing
Low self-esteem or confidence
Overthinking and rumination
Phobias (flying, animals, etc.)
Habits you want to change
Sleep difficulties
CBH is a supportive, skills-based therapy. It does not diagnose or treat mental illness and is not suitable if you:
Are in an acute mental health crisis
Experience psychosis or hallucinations
Have high-risk clinical depression or active suicidal thoughts
Require medical or psychiatric intervention

